When a Loved one goes back home to the spirit world.
It is very important, that you understand, that there are times when you will be overcome with grief- for example, the most common cases of not being able to let go completely, is with parents who have lost children.
When this happens, to parents, they often fall into a grief pattern of not being able to accept what has happened, and thus do all they can, to continue to keep connecting, or keep the memories fresh.
Another part of this, is guilt- A lot of parents blame themselves for the passing, feeling as though they have "let their children down" or that they could have done more, to prevent this from happening.
What must be noted, is that, the child who has passed, has done so, for the benefit of the family, and their soul mission. Of course, it does not seem like any sort of benefit at the time, to anyone! But, this is always a soul agreement, between parents, and children-one that was to prop ell, the parents into a new life, and way of thinking- and to reach their own soul potentials and goals.
It is a beautiful thing, and as sad as it is, family members always need to remember that the child is protected, comforted, loved and happy as can be in the spiritual realm. They will be there, acting as guides, as you go into your future as well.
A lot of children who pass over, also stay close to the mother, and if she should decide to have another child, the spirit, may decide to come into the Earth again.
This is a choice the soul makes.
Most of all, the children that pass do not want to see their family grieving- especially if it is stopping the person from functioning in a normal way.
What I mean by this, is that, some never do go onto their true path- instead, they spend their lived grieving, and in some cases, falling into deep depression, and even in most extreme circumstances, take their own lives.
The children who have passed, want their family to go on with their life in happiness. Of course, it is only natural to mourn your child, and grieve periodically for them. But you have had a unique experience, that only those who have lost children understand. You may in the future, be able to help others, who are also in your position, or even help children in some way- the list of things that are possible for you, are endless.
Never feel as though you are personally punished by God. This is not true- you punish yourself enough!
Always do your best to remember, that the soul agreement was for this to happen, in this way. In the past, on Earth, YOU may have been the one to make just this sacrifice, in order for spiritual growth of your family.
Always remember, most of all, that you are loved eternally by your child, and your child wants nothing more, than for you to accept yourself, for the wonderful person that you are, and go on in life, living your dreams, and making your life as wonderful as it can be.
You are wonderful, and a strong soul, if this has been your soul contract with your child. You can achieve more than you imagine, by having this experience, and using it for the benefit of yourself, your family, and those who you may be able to help along the way.
Please know, that your child loves you eternally- and can hear your words, see your pain, and love, and also can be with you at any time. You may not always physically see them, but they are there.
I hope this has helped someone out there, and as you have read this, be assured, that your child is with you now.
By BDevine.
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